Letter To My Transgender Daughter

September 1, 2022
Hays (a pseudonym) pens this poignant letter to her transgender daughter now reaching her teens. At a young age, Hays' youngest son showed a strong interest in dolls and female clothes, preferring to be called she. The author begins researching transgender issues and gradually lets her daughter take the lead on activities and clothing choices. This is new territory for Hays, a parent to three other children, but she, her husband, their families, friends, and school authorities are all trying to help the child find her identity. Then there is a knock on the door, and a DCFS investigator tipped by an anonymous call walks in. Hays does a wonderful job of honestly recalling the turmoil, moves, and challenges that followed as well as the unexpected aid from families and friends. Throughout the letter, she shows constant love and support for her daughter, who remains at peace with her choices. Gradually, Hays and family become eloquent advocates for the girl and the trans community. Families facing similar challenges will be comforted and inspired by this clear-eyed, love-filled tale.

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